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Kistaro Windrider, Reptillian Situation Assessor

Unfortunately, I Really Am That Nerdy

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Communication
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I'm really lame at starting conversations over AIM, especially with people I don't really know.

It's not that I don't want to talk- I do- but I'm lame at opening conversations.

And I don't know when it's okay to bother somebody for no reason at all. I'm really a rather interesting person to talk to, but I don't open conversations enough.

Darn it, how do I know who I can bother out of the blue for no apparent reason?

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You can bother me with anything anytime you want.

I don't get bothered by IMs suddenly popping up from other people. If I'm able to talk, I'll jump in happily. If I'm terribly distracted by something temporary, I'll ask to give me a few minutes. If distracted by something serious, I'll ask to maybe talk another time. *smiles* So don't worry about bugging.

Aims dont ever bother bother me :D Feel free to chat.

I have the same problem, Kistaro, so I can't really help much... but I'd be happy to receive IMs :) Same applies as Delcan, really - if I'm not really available, I'll say so.

Not being able to start a conversation without a particular topic in mind is precisely why I don't IM you either!

The easiest way is if you did something, and talked to the other person about it. I think that's what you need to do. Like, if you'd seen any movies or gone anywhere. Then you could just be telling a story. If they're a good friend, they'll listen to it.

That's the best thing I could come up with. You could also try just cuddling. If you, and they, are that type of person, at least.

I think I'll be taking the general advice of those here (and one person who IMmed me randomly over it ^_^ ) and just say "hi" whenever I sort of have anything whatsoever to say...

The difficulty is that I don't always really have anything to say because not much happens in homeschooling, but I can deal with it; there's always something comical in judo class!

Um.. um..
That's alarmingly familiar. Yup. All of it.

I don't get a lot of attention these days, either. If I started getting unsolicited IMs that weren't porn ads--and even those are rare!--I'd probably have a coronary.

*smirks awkwardly*
Risks aside, company would be welcome. :)

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