Having Jacel here made me not be ashamed to not be straight and not be ashamed to have a complicated gender identity. I couldn't even identify that at the time. Now that the shame and self-hatred is sneaking back up on me, I am starting to identify it.
I've migrated to DreamWidth. The original post is at http://kistaro.dreamwidth.org/490081.html. View comments at http://kistaro.dreamwidth.org/490081.html#comments; go ahead and use OpenID to post your own, or you can comment here.