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Kistaro Windrider, Reptillian Situation Assessor

Unfortunately, I Really Am That Nerdy

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Support, Inability To Give
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This is a standing apology to all those on my friends list who are having problems in general, and I haven't been commenting. I don't have an excuse. I've been getting support for mine.

No excuse, but a reason: I suck at giving words of support. Y'all are having problems that I really don't understand- not from a lack of description, but my lack of comprehension. I just don't know all sides of a situation, and I can't infer it. I don't fit in, and I don't understand a lot about society- I can't even figure out what's going on.

I don't know what to say that's both comforting and helpful- and I just general-purpose don't post one-line messages of sympathy because, sincere as they always are, they just seem... wrong, somehow.

I hate it. I hate not being able to be there for others. It's not because I don't care.

Please know this: if I don't respond to a message of problems you're facing, things you need help and consolation with, it's not for lack of caring. It's because I just don't know what to say.

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I have to say the same thing for myself in regard to the cancer of your aunt. If I knew what to say, it would have been said, but I am clueless as how to comfort or console you on the matter. All in all, I can only hope that things go as well as they can in that situation.

Its okay. I understand you. That happens to me too, Im not sure what to say and I dont want to say the wrong thing. ::huggs:: I dont take offense to those things, I know you are having a rough time. I really hope things get better.

I know what you mean, Kistaro, and I must say the same about myself regarding your aunt... I... I'm just hopeless putting feelings into words, really.

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